Don't compare yourself to someone else.

Romans 12:16 " Live in harmony, do not be snobbish, high minded, and give yourselves to humble tasks, Never over estimate yourselves" and again in the book ABANDONMENT TO DIVINE PROVIDENCE 'all we count as trivial and worthless is actually what can make us holy. Making comparisons between various states is meaningless, for holiness is not to be looked for in the number or kind of duties given us. But our ATTITUDE to all these things. And this attitude is simply to say 'I will' to all that God asks in this present moment (no matter how grand or how menial)