Seek God alone.

"Seek God alone.
All else is irrevelant.
We should stop preaching to souls about the state of pure faith
or pure love, about the cross, or the sweetness of religion.
For everyone is different.
And these matters maybe unsuitable to them.
Instead, let us tell everyone who loves God
about self abandonment to the divine action in general
.....Let us not dishearten, nor rebuff, nor drive away
a single soul from seeking that high perfection to which He calls everyone.
He wishes only that He can guide,
direct,
befriend them
in proportion to the closeness of their union." 
Abandonment to Divine Providence, pg 63